First things first, I am not really interested in other people's dramas. Well, I know it sounds selfish. But for me knowing other people's lives quite burdens me. As I don't want unconsciously telling others something I shouldn't. However the main reason is, when you tell me your problems I might said that you are the wrong one, if you are. I might blame you. I am not there to hear you vent off your frustrations just to coax you. I want to give you another perspectives as a third person. I want to help you solve your problems. Which means, I will straightforwardly say that, I repeat, you are in a wrong position when you are wrong. It could be frustrating for some people . As when you vent your anger, you want someone to side you. You want someone to coax you. It is human nature. But as I do really care for you I will tell you what might be better for you. For me, siding or coaxing you will not make you solve your problems. The least I could do is just to listen, n...